Silver Thread

The book I am currently reading on parenting is "The Duties of Parents" by R.C. Ryle. It was first printed in 1888 and then reprinted in 2002. The truth in this book has had a profound affect on my heart in the area of training my children. A majority of it has now been highlighted between Joshua and I.
"Love should be the silver thread that runs through all your conduct. Kindness, gentleness, long-suffering, patience, forbearance, sympathy, a willingness to enter into childish troubles, a readiness to take part in childish joys - these are the cords by which a child may be led most easily - these are the clues you must follow if you would find the way to his heart...Sternness and severity of manner chill them and throw them back. It shuts up their hearts, and you will weary yourself to find the door...they must be wooed with kindness, if their attention is ever to be won."

This book has brought a soberness to my responses towards my little ones. It will be one that I will frequently visit to help remind me of the task that God has called me to as a mom.